Have you just ever felt like this?

We all have days where we feel like the world is caving in on us, don’t we?  Sometimes,  I feel like I am the only one. To be honest, usually I am “happy-go-lucky” all the time. In fact, my husband always looks at me in times of trouble and says “you just don’t have a care in the world”!  Always perplexed with him looking at me like that, I just node, laugh and say no! I have always looked at things as if they were meant to happen and it is all in how you handle it. I am very good under pressure, I always have been but this week, I just want to pull my hair out.

Here, let me explain…

1. Leaving a house I grew up in since I was a child.

 2. Being self-employed, the bank is driving me crazy.

  3. A good friend will not speak to me and I don’t know

what I did?

4. My daughter is getting married…

5. Everyone wants something from me.

6. My house is a cluster f@%k with furniture, lighting

and accessories for the new house everywhere.

That is why I feel like this…

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But…

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These are all the great things that come out of the bad…

1. My daughter and her fiancé are moving into the house I grew up in…

2. We are blessed beyond belief to have what we have…

3. Maybe that friend is not worth the aggregation if they

do not have the time or patience to explain why… a blessing in disguise…

4. My daughter is getting married to her perfect guy…

5. At least someone wants something from you and you are not alone…

6. Well, that I need a magic wand, it is still a cluster f@%k…

There is always a silver lining in life. Don’t forget to remember that when your hands are in your hair and you want to scream and hit your head against the wall:)

Embarrassing!

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What is the most embarrassing thing that ever happened to you? I feel like the embarrassing moments in our lives are truly the most important and memorable things that could ever happen to us. How did you react to that embarrassing moment? Did you crawl into a ball in the dark and hide from the fear of being laughed at..or even worse..laughing at yourself? Here are short and sweet words of wisdom…NOBODY CARES… so why should you?

You trip and fall in front of your crush…stand up, laugh at yourself, and keep on flirting! He will probably laugh, but in 5 minutes he will be thinking about something else. In my opinion, the quirkiest people are the most adorable.

One time my boyfriend and I were walking down the front steps of his house at school. The coupled of days before that it had been snowing like crazy, and it was very icy outside. We were joking around in our normal fashion when WHAM! Down he went, on the ground. The cold, wet, snowy ground.

Instead of getting stand offish and all embarrassed he cracked up at himself like the dork that he is. I didn’t tell him this, but i really loved that moment. He took something that could have been really embarrassing and turned it into a great story to tell our friends.

Thats the things. Laughter is so beautiful. Embarrassing moments are made for laughter.

Truth be told, everyone has been through at least one embarrassing moment. Even movie stars.

Who reading this post remembers when Jennifer Lawrence face planted before she even made it on the stage to accept her award at the 2013 Oscars? As well as winning best actress, she should have won “best fall” because she owned every single second of it. That is why so many people adore her. Because she can turn a truly embarrassing moment, in front of millions of people, into more of a reason to love her.

Seeeeee….even Jennifer Lawrence, who so many people look up to for her flawless beauty has some questionable and hilarious moments. But she has remained to rock them.

Own those embarrassing moments people, that is all I ask.

We all deserve a good laugh!

TGIF!

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WOW! THANK GOD ITS FRIDAY EVERYBODY.

This week has definitely been a stressful one. Have you ever bit off more than you can chew?

Well I felt that way on Wednesday of this week. By no means am I complaining about it, because I love being busy. I love being a part of a lot of different things. But this week hit me especially hard. I am not sure if it is the gloomy weather getting to me, but GUUUURRRRRLLLLLL needs a break. So here is my post for the day.

THANK GOD ITS FRIDAY.

I know I already said that but here it is again….

THANK GOD!

What are you guys doing this weekend? Are you going out with friends? Girls night? Get away with your boyfriend? Wanna know what I am doing?

I am not touching any work this weekend. I am going to do fun things. Fun, college things. Maybe I will go to a party? Definitely going to go to the football game! I need to take some time and remember that college is about making some memories.

I have gotten so caught up in my work and my extracurriculars that I forgot that I am still a 21 year old girl who can have a little fun now and again.

Weekends to just rewind and lay low are such good remedies to a stressful week. I find myself counting down the hours till it is Friday and I do not have to be on my A game. I know many of you feel the same way too.

Let your hair down, put on some sweats, and watch a movie. I know that will be the first thing I do after I get home from classes today. I need to charge my battery so I am ready for the upcoming busy week.

I feel that college has not only reminded me that, yes, I am going to be in the real world before I realize it, but also, I need to remember to have some fun along the way. Life isn’t about work and no play. Gotta balance it somehow.

So all you business men and women.

All you stay at home mom’s  and dad’s.

All you professors, teachers, deans, colleagues.

HAVE SOME FUN!

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10 YEARS FROM NOW

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Today my roommates and I were sitting in one of our rooms, goofing off as usual,  when one of us decided to get serious and ask where  each of us wanted to be in 10 years. That is such a loaded question, but then we all got to thinking. Where do we want to be?

Will we be married or single?

Will we have children?

Where will we be living?

I was thinking to myself during this whole conversation and I came to the conclusion that I really don’t know where I want to be.

There are small things that I would love to happen, like being married and starting to have children, but I do not know where I want to live, or what I will be doing. I think that life is about enjoying the now, and taking things slow. On the other side of things, I believe that if you feel confident enough in something, then you need to go for it. Take that step. Don’t step out of your comfort zone, leap out of.

Life is too short to plan out all the small things. If that is the case, then there would be no room for surprises. If you want to start a new hobby, start it. If you want to become a singer, do it.

Like the quote above, “Once in a while, blow your own damn mind”

It may surprise you what you are good out. Maybe you can be the next Christina Aguilera. Or the next Mia Hamm. Maybe you are an awesome photographer, or great dancer. You never know unless you try, and life is too short not to.

So, where will I be ten years from now? Hopefully married, hopefully starting to have kids, hopefully working at my dream job.

But I will continue to do things that make me happy.